On the other hand, I just have a short conversation from a woman in my Facebook account and it was my first time to receive such a direct question. Somehow it does make me wondered whether it is true that single women get desperate after 30+ year old? The reason I shared my conversation was because I still wish to left something for me to recall back when I'm old as shown below.
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Girl: i need a mr right
Me: @.@ i see...
Girl: u r?
Me: huh? means?
Girl: u r mr right?
Me: no lah.. lol, i don't have job, car, house yet, just graduated
Girl: r u hardworking, manner, take care ppl, no smoking
Me: yeah, no smoke no drink. no night activities@@
Girl: good, u r good
Me: ok ok lo.. haha
Girl: how old r u?
Me: 23
Girl: so young, r u single?
Me: yeah lo, haha
Girl: what type girl u like?
Me: duno o. now need find a job 1st then only think others stuff
Girl: if i old than u?
Me: urm, duno o
Girl: u like long hair? sexy girl? dun like fat girl?
Me: no lah, just that i need settle my own personal problem first..
Girl: ok, what u study?
Me: e-commerce and marketing..
Girl: after u settle u problem, u come to chase me?
Me: wow, so direct.. @.@~
Girl: u like me this type gf? no just ask, u just reply me
Me: i duno, cause i never paktoh before for my entire life..been chase once but failed, then no think about it d
Girl: i also never pak tok
Me: how old r u? @.@
Girl: bit i too old than u
Me: ooo..
Girl: 34, do u mind?
Me: sorry to be truth that i'm quite mind..
Girl: yes i know, but i look young
Me: maybe u can use some social networking website like paktoh apps to find the guy that is around your age bah~ i believe there is more people that suit you~ wishing you all the best!
Girl: u see me, i so young look
Me: yeah.. haha
Girl: can no accept because my age
Me: sorry o..
Girl: ???
Me: it's a no.. sorry..
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Well, I'm not sure it is a troll or not because her profile have few mutual friend with me. Frankly speaking, I was quite particular choosing my future partner who was older than me especially 10+ years gap. My preference about my future partner would be younger than my current age or older 2 years maximum age gap. However, I have no right to judge about this matter because sometime "love is blind" and you wouldn't know what will happen to you in future. In fact, I might start to understand why would a single woman will get desperate after 30 years old.
So if I had put myself in their shoes as a 30 year old female, I would start to worry because a woman's fertility will keep decline when I'm getting older. Moreover, you will not have much choice to compete yourself with those 20+ year old when you hit your 30 mid life crisis as a single woman. Actually I do read a lot of article and blogs before writing this post and I would like to share an article about "Why women lose the dating game" and some of the content that I found meaningful was shown below.
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That leaves a lot of beta men spending their 20s out in the cold. Greg, a 38-year-old writer from Melbourne, started adult life shy and lonely. ''In my 20s, the women had the total upper hand. They could make or break you with one look in a club or bar. They had the choice of men, sex was on tap and guys like me went home alone, red-faced, defeated and embarrassed. The girls only wanted to go for the cool guys, good looks, outgoing personalities, money, sporty types, the kind of guys who owned the room, while us quiet ones got ignored.''
He barely had a date through much of his 20s and gave up on women. But then he spent time overseas, gained more confidence, learnt how to dress well and hit his early 30s. ''I suddenly started to get asked out by women, aged 19 through to 40. The floodgates burst open for me. I actually dated five women at once, amazing my flatmates by often bedding three to four of my casual dates each week. It is a great time as a male in your 30s, when you start getting more female attention and sex than you could ever have dreamt of in your 20s.''
That's when some men start behaving very badly as the manosphere clearly shows. These internet sites are not for the faint-hearted. The voices are often crude and misogynist. But they tell it as they see it. There is Greenlander, an apparently successful engineer in his late 30s. In his early adult life, he was unable to ''get the time of day from women''. Now he's interested only in women under 27.
''The women I know in their early 30s are just delusional,'' he says. ''I sometimes seduce them and sleep with them just because I know how to play them so well. It's just too easy. They're tired of the cock carousel and they see a guy like me as the perfect beta to settle down with before their eggs dry out … when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls … It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''
Now it's all gold for the single guy. No more on your knees begging for a date, buddy you're the king. Who cares if you're snaggle-toothed, if the girl is over 30, she'll over look that. Got a club foot? No matter. After a girl turns 30, it's like a 'discrimination' switch gets turned off and the 'desperate' switch is flicked on. I know I may bump into alot of opposition with my opinion but look around. How many single female friends over 30 do you have? And for the girls that fall into that group, how many always complain "There are never any good single guys out there"? The first single guy they bump into will already have a running start cause you know she's looking for a mate...if they can find him. So all I can say is;
Good luck single guy, you're gonna have the time of your life, if you are really out there.
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Do you agree that woman will start to like you regardless of much concern about how you look once they reach 30s as shown below?
During the night, I helped my cousin as a "au pair" in someway and liked the western culture about how they interact with their children. What I liked was they will hug/cuddle/kiss their children to let them know that they parent love them. Furthermore, I do helped to read some storybook to her children and suddenly feel to have my own family one day as I would read a storybook to my future children. Before I end my post, I would like to share a song that I liked recently which is "Say Something" by A Great Big World as shown below or the link >>> Here.
At last, I am looking forward to tomorrow's day trip to Greenwich and hope that everything will go smoothly without much obstacle.
Be Happy!
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