Somehow I do felt that a higher educated person seems to be having more stress than those lower educated person. (after SPM without continue further study.) Sorry if I get anyone offended saying that lower educated person didn't suffer much stress.) The reason why I said so was due to after spending so much $$ on the education system, there is no turning back to getting a lower paid job partly because of variance reason such as "peer pressure", "repaying high interest loan", "face problem" and others. For instance, most of my friend would have already working would probably start to compare "who or which" friend earn more money. The things that I can do now was just keep telling myself is to not keep compare myself with others because even if your friend earn RM10,000+, it does really affect your life when you think it deeply.
In fact, everyone has their own problem personal too and what we really can do was to cheer ourselves up in a positive mood.. Below are some life lesson that make me feel quite meaningful by Patel as shown below.
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1) Bad days do not last forever, neither do good days. Learn to handle the situation during the bad times and cherish all the good times.
2) Each person that you’ve encountered with in your life has played some type of role which you have grown as a person. Do not forget them.
3) Learn to love yourself before getting into a relationship. Don’t be in a relationship for reassurance of how pretty you are. You’ll never believe it
4) If you love someone, tell them, whether it’s your significant other, family members, or friends.
5) Do not stress over situations in your life that cannot be controlled. It’s easier said than done, but it’s something to learn to handle as young adults. Life is never going to get any easier.
6) If you’re making more than an average person, help those that are less fortunate than you are.
7) Social media is great, but don’t invest so much of your time on it.
8) Failure just makes you stronger. You’ll be able to say you’ve experienced rough times that made you into who you are today.
9) Learn to make your own decisions. It’s good to ask for advice from your peers, but at the end of the day, learn to take the risk on your own terms.
10) Love what you do for a living. Not everyone loves their job, but this is the time to figure out what you are passionate about. Take the risk to try something new.
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On the other hand, I also read a book named Purple cow by Seth Godin. There is one thing that I is quite interesting to share the sad truth about marketing. Any product or service that are targeted to consumer or operations is most people can't buy your product, either they don't have the money, time or they don't want it. If an audience doesn't have the money to buy what you're selling at the price you need to sell for, you don't have a market. If the audience doesn't have the time to listen and understand your pitch idea, you'll be treated as an invisible person. If an audience take the time to hear your pitch idea but decided they don't want to, you're not going to get very far. It is because the world has changed as there are far more choices, but there is less and less time to sort them out.
Hence, if you could think about a product or services that can solve sophisticated problem and can add value to someone life, it might have a higher chance to become successful. Honestly, I start feel myself get "moved" to accept writing some review and get a little monetary benefit. Perhaps this might be the reason why some blogger could earn some extra money/perks/benefits by writing in part time. However, the drawback would be "reputation get damaged" and eventually getting less credibility when they found out you write something good about a product or services offered by a company. Anyway, it is useless to think about some nonsense thoughts such as being hypocrite or anything else because in the end, you only need to answer to yourself about all the decision that being made.
During the night, I didn't manage to have more conversation and start to feel quite stress about myself because next week will be going to my cousin's parent house. Besides, my assignment didn't complete and I made a bad decision for thinking too much. Before I end my post, I would like to share a start-up website about selling your used book or buy a book with cheaper price. The website offer a smarter way for Malaysian student to save money on buying books. Furthermore, the more you give, the more you will get in return and I start to realize that why generous people will be blessed with a lot of good things.
Cheer~
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