then i just get myself prepared as today was the orientation day in Sheffield Hallam University.
well, one of my friend cooked some sausage with eggs as our breakfast since we had share to buy the ingredient at Aldi supermarket.
around 9am we make a move from there to the University after divided people into few group in the downstair of the hostel.
along the way walking toward the university, the senior explained some building and i just taken some picture and the toilet's hand washer was quite special as shown below.
it seems that they do provide a service where student can phone them using an anonymous identity to chat if face any problem or feeling too lonely about no people can talk to which is just like why i always using an anonymous identity expressing my feeling using the blogging platform.
however, it would be no fun and totally awkward when someone find out about your identity because you might feel like being "raped mentally" when someone know about your secret.
moreover, some people might say that if that's the case, then it is better don't voice it out but who will really understand this kind of feeling that you want to find "a place" to give all your real thought instead of keeping inside heart right?
honestly, the reason why i write so long was actually because i don't really like about "something" especially when it related to friend who know my blog and studying now together with me.
first of all, i hate those people who simple accusing me for something i don't although most of the people might feel that it was just a joke.
suddenly this make me recall back about what Mrs Anonymous saying about the person who annoys you as i felt like being bullied mentally and hate myself for become such a coward which always follow what's other people say.
anyways, below was the two scenario mentioned by Mrs Anonymous about the person who annoys you which i felt so true.
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1) → You will get emotional and will start to get angry and that may cause you to start a fight with him, and the more you fight with him and maybe he is stronger, so every time you lose to him , he will get even more arrogant and will bully you more and more ...(>_<) ...
2)→ You will totally ignore him and will be so cool-minded. But !! When things are over the limit, you will stop him right away and will show him his right place. This way , you will appear stronger and he might not think to bother you again. Even if he tried, you will just continue to ignore him, he will try to do it once, twice, three times. When he never gets any reaction that he expects from you, you are never upset , you never care about whatever he does. Little by little he will get bored and will start to look for a different person who might be weaker than you to bully so that he would be able to show his strength.
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another things i dislike was about people who like to use vulgar word for every single word they speak and i just feel wondering did they feel shame when talking in such way because it will just embarrass their parents for not teach their children properly.perhaps you might think that i was over-think or over-react about something that is small case but what i can say that is different people have different personality and i hate for being so fake about myself pretending to keep say it is all okay for everything.
in fact, i think it is quite bias that you will never speak like that to your parents or lecturer probably but saying such words to your friend especially during normal talking.
what i can see here was that most of the time we was influence by friends because when the moment some people say such words, you might eventually followed even it happens to me when over frustrated.
until this moment, i still asked myself whether why always because a small things seems like keep enlarging it like a serious problem and i realized that maybe the "alone" personality suite me the best as i shouldn't complain so much since i tends to be enjoying the "lonely" life.
during the afternoon after the speech, we was given some food as shown below.
after the afternoon speech, we went to the Hubs marketplace to buy the weekends tickets as it is travel to York £10, ManchesterOld Trafford £18, Whitby £12, Blackpool £12, Liverpool £10, Cambridge £15, LeedsRoyal Amouries Museum £10, Cheshire Oaks £12, Newcastle £12, Nottingham £10, James Bond Party £5, Disney Party £5 as shown below. (total £131)
besides, i do have a doubt about UK people whether they really is that sincere to be so polite because they will say hello, thank you and other good manner or it was due to typical Malaysian people who don't really care much about other's people mood as long as got money to earn?
during the evening, we waited for Tong Hang tour group and walked quite a long distance to one of the football stadium while waiting for the seminar as shown below. (Sheffield United FC football VIP room?)
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2) Rhine drive / Koln / Loreley Turn / Wine Valley / Bretten
3) Munich / Romantic route / New Swan castle / Fern Pass / Austrian alphine region
4) Innsbruck / Crystal World / Verona / Venice region
5) Tour Venice / Montecartini
6) Florence walking / Rome
7) Full day in Rome / Vatican State
8) Pisa / Italian Riviera route / San Remo
9) Monte Carlo Formula 1 race track / Eze Perfume factory / Nice / Rhone valley - Lyon region
10) Geneva - Berne - bear pit town / Lucerne
11) Lucerne / Optional excursion to Titlis Snow Mountain / Mulhouse
12) Mulhouse / Auxerre / Paris
13) Happiest land on earth - Disneyland
14) Paris tour and free time
15) Paris / Calais / London
The trips come with a 14 night in 3 star hotel, 14 continental breakfast, 7 proper meals, free city tax for Pisa / Florence / Verona / Veneice / Rome, free red light district (Holland), Paris night view (France), Free 11 Euro Paris Seine River Cruise (France), Free 58 Euro for Disneyland 1 day/2 park ticket, electronic wireless ear-set "whisper" provided for free of charge (39 Euro normally) and pic up at each student accommodation and free transfer back to London, Manchester Airport, Manchester and Sheffield.
However, there is 3 things that not included was French meal (40 Euro), other meals (3-10 Euro each meal), tipping for driver and tour guide compulsory (60 Euro) and others.
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anyways, i still thinking whether want to join Scotland trip or not.
besides, the tour manager explanation seems to be quite true as now the Europian Union had open to all and caused Gypsy and other 3rd world country people to steal or robe even using small kid to do it.
after that, i continue to took some picture as shown below.
then we went to the Aldi supermarket to buy something again.
finally i arrived back home around 10pm.
later on, i phoned my mother about my current status after activate the data plan of £2.50 for 500MB as below.
overall i just feel that the people you mix around was quite important because it might decide your future.
(Self Expenses note: Today £142, Yesterday total 13£, Total up to date £155)
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