It was another day for me to overcome the "jet lag" issue. Upon awakens at 2.10pm, I suddenly feel "guilty" again when I read an article about "clinical depression" symptoms. However, I start to find some solution to deal with it because dwelling about past doesn't improve your current situation. Does anyone really understand the feeling of jobless now but are you trying hard enough to overcome the matters? Seriously until this moment of writing, I still recalling what my cousin said to me that "You can blame everyone for everything that happened, but do you take the responsible or any action to change it start from yourself?" In deed it was a great advice but how many people, including me really take that much effort to change?
For instance, the ways to improve your English skills might start with 1 hour of reading, 1 hour of writing, 1 hour of listening and 1 hour of presenting the information to others people. Well, who would really spend 4 hour doing that if he/she does not distracted by social media or any kind of other entertainment. In fact, the more you avoid the problem, the more it will come to "HAUNT" you in future. During the afternoon, mother prepared some steamboat as our lunch and it has been a long time I didn't eat it while I was in UK. After that, we went to one of my relative house. Somehow I do get a lot of advice from my Aunty saying's that I shouldn't be fussy when choosing my career. After all, I might be consider as a fresh graduate.
Frankly speaking, I don't want to become choosy in job but somehow I do have my own "personal matters" to be settle. By now, I need to think a way on how to earn back RM50,000+ in someways after all the total spending in UK for the past 6 month. Actually I do know that there is an illegal way to earn RM5,000+ per month by becoming a waiter in UK. However, if you think it wisely, what you can do after earning those money for few year and come back to Malaysia? If you plan to do business, you might face a huge risk because you might not able to afford the failure. Anyway, there is no right or wrong when come to this kind of risk as the drawback was getting blacklisted or deported.
One the other hand, I do admire my uncle very much and he recently published the first aviation book about life in the skies to encourage young people to become a pilot. The most important lesson is to pay extra 150% effort than others people. Through my cousin's sharing, I learned that it is important to be have integrity in your life. For example, if someone pay you a huge amount of money to do something illegal, you shouldn't accept it if you have integrity. You should think in a way that if you do something illegal, would you able to sleep well in the night that might threaten others people life. In the end, only the person who are authentic and honest will become successful in life regardless of what others people said.
After we had visited one of my relative house, we went to visits another relative and pass some souvenir that I bought from UK. Finally I arrived back home at 8.30pm and spend my time to sort out all those souvenir. Honestly, I did feel a little bad for not able to buy much souvenir back from UK as it might not sufficient to distribute among my friend and family. Apparently I start to understand the things that my cousin said to me few day ago that it might not necessary to buy for friends and relatives since I'm just a student and people do not expect you to have money to spend on them. Later on, I realized that today was my primary school's friend wedding.
Somehow I do admit that I'm being avoidance in someway when I thought that the bride friend's (a girl) will come to the wedding. Actually I do know that I shouldn't keep dwell on the past on the same matter because it will leaves no space to other girl if I really want to start a new relationship. In fact, I deeply understand well that the more I avoid the problem, the more it will came to me in the future. At this moment of writing, how do you guys feel if you're a 24 year old guy this year and doesn't have much life achievement especially a stable career that can "feed" yourself up? Anyway, Happy Marriage to my primary school friend although I didn't attend it. At last, I would like to wish all guys out there including me to be hardworking to improve yourself in all sort of ways although I might be just another "talker" and 6 month passed so fast again.
LOL!
=)
For instance, the ways to improve your English skills might start with 1 hour of reading, 1 hour of writing, 1 hour of listening and 1 hour of presenting the information to others people. Well, who would really spend 4 hour doing that if he/she does not distracted by social media or any kind of other entertainment. In fact, the more you avoid the problem, the more it will come to "HAUNT" you in future. During the afternoon, mother prepared some steamboat as our lunch and it has been a long time I didn't eat it while I was in UK. After that, we went to one of my relative house. Somehow I do get a lot of advice from my Aunty saying's that I shouldn't be fussy when choosing my career. After all, I might be consider as a fresh graduate.
Frankly speaking, I don't want to become choosy in job but somehow I do have my own "personal matters" to be settle. By now, I need to think a way on how to earn back RM50,000+ in someways after all the total spending in UK for the past 6 month. Actually I do know that there is an illegal way to earn RM5,000+ per month by becoming a waiter in UK. However, if you think it wisely, what you can do after earning those money for few year and come back to Malaysia? If you plan to do business, you might face a huge risk because you might not able to afford the failure. Anyway, there is no right or wrong when come to this kind of risk as the drawback was getting blacklisted or deported.
One the other hand, I do admire my uncle very much and he recently published the first aviation book about life in the skies to encourage young people to become a pilot. The most important lesson is to pay extra 150% effort than others people. Through my cousin's sharing, I learned that it is important to be have integrity in your life. For example, if someone pay you a huge amount of money to do something illegal, you shouldn't accept it if you have integrity. You should think in a way that if you do something illegal, would you able to sleep well in the night that might threaten others people life. In the end, only the person who are authentic and honest will become successful in life regardless of what others people said.
After we had visited one of my relative house, we went to visits another relative and pass some souvenir that I bought from UK. Finally I arrived back home at 8.30pm and spend my time to sort out all those souvenir. Honestly, I did feel a little bad for not able to buy much souvenir back from UK as it might not sufficient to distribute among my friend and family. Apparently I start to understand the things that my cousin said to me few day ago that it might not necessary to buy for friends and relatives since I'm just a student and people do not expect you to have money to spend on them. Later on, I realized that today was my primary school's friend wedding.
Somehow I do admit that I'm being avoidance in someway when I thought that the bride friend's (a girl) will come to the wedding. Actually I do know that I shouldn't keep dwell on the past on the same matter because it will leaves no space to other girl if I really want to start a new relationship. In fact, I deeply understand well that the more I avoid the problem, the more it will came to me in the future. At this moment of writing, how do you guys feel if you're a 24 year old guy this year and doesn't have much life achievement especially a stable career that can "feed" yourself up? Anyway, Happy Marriage to my primary school friend although I didn't attend it. At last, I would like to wish all guys out there including me to be hardworking to improve yourself in all sort of ways although I might be just another "talker" and 6 month passed so fast again.
LOL!
=)