I believe every parents also wish their children to be successful in life after all effort being spend into their children right? After I had taken my lunch, I continue to practice the Pomodoro technique but it just last for only 1 cycle. Hence, I start to wonder what is the purpose of keep reading those motivational book if I didn't implement it in my life right. For instance, scientist say that the amygdala, mini brain apparently takes over your body whenever you are angry, afraid, aroused, hungry or in search of revenge. The advice given to overcome it by keep doing the things that you're lack of such as public speaking and others as we all know but how many people will take the action seriously including myself. (being categorise as NATO - Talk Only No Action in someway)
During the night, I have a "Yum Cha" (Drinking Tea 饮茶) session with one of my close friend from diploma college. He came to fetch me since I don't have my own transport yet. We went to the Hangout Cafe Klang restaurant Malaysia and the environment was quite nice from their FB page together with the restaurant details as shown below.
Address: 50b, Pelangi Avenue, Jalan Kelicap 42a / Ku1, Off Jalan Meru, 41050 Klang, Selangor, Malaysia
Contact Person: +6016-235 3935
Business Hours: 5pm to 3am (Mon-Sun)
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thehangoutcafeklg
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There was a lot of people although it is quite "pricy" when the drinks cost about RM5.50+ that could be a common price in a cafe concept restaurant menu. The entertainment there is playing the dart in the machine and I saw a lot of cafe restaurant follow this concept. Honestly, I really want to show him that I had changed in term of my "mindset" but he could find it out later through the way I talk and my face expression since he know me so well. Sometime I do asked myself why want to "torture" this kind of expressing feeling when it could harm me in the long term. I did admit that I'm not a very good in expressing myself verbally as I tends to "over-abuse" the blogging platform when I started to write my feeling in blog few years ago when the intention was to find someone to solve my problem.
My greatest fear would be getting people know about me since I shared too much of my secret, almost 75% online although I know that people will not care much since the world is full of "noises" especially in our information era. However, I could be in the "odd" area because guys usually didn't express so much about themselves when compared to girls. The topics that guys "busybody" talk about was mainly "which girls is beautiful" and how to earn more money/successful in career based on what I heard this days. On the other hand, the disadvantage of expressing too much could end up having a conflicted life in two ways of personality. Sometime I couldn't understand what I had written and this could make me get myself in trouble although I don't really mean to. In fact, too much explanation would make the problem become complicated.
Furthermore, if you interested with someone, you will definitely find the way to "dig out" the profile of that person although I'm anonymous in someway. Over time, I really appreciate the online friend that I made in term of quality instead of quantity because only a few people who really care about your life and I always hoped to meet the right person. (Felt sorry and guilty but I learnt a lot during my journey of having conversation with quantity friend) It was because if you really like me, you will find all the ways to know about me instead of just another passer by. For those people who does know me well, they might find it surprise when they see the other side of me. In conclusion, the "yum cha" session was great and I do get a lot of insight and understanding although my friend hope that I will change in someway after so many years.
The future of this blog seems to be not ending in a good way after so many years of writing although it is all up to my decision to close or whatsoever. The most important lesson was if you didn't contribute much and always use the shortcut to find something, only yourself will get harmed in the end. In short, you need to create something unique, integrity, giving back credit and not copy paste when I was influenced by "something." Afterall, life is short, if you do it right, once is enough. I'm also agree with the Napoleon Hill quotes saying's that "If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way" that is remarkable or worthwhile doing. Obviously I'm not doing it in the right way after so many years had past and being given so many chances in life. I'm deceiving myself in the end by keep saying positive stuff, or I had changed to become positive. No question or answer given if I'm confidence enough.
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